Zx30
Beto
The MAN pays. Somehow this pisses me off but I still follow it. What's the deal?
Here is what I'm trying to say. When a man and a woman go out together, the man is sometimes expected to pay am right? I only say sometimes because there are women out there who respect a man and try to equal things out. But when have you ever heard a women to be expected to pay for a man?
Why is it this way?
-Is it because society has made it seem this way? That the MAN should be able to support for a woman?(Because I know damn well that if a man ever talks about this, the man will most likely look like an asshole to women and some other men am I correct?)
-Is it because woman feel they need to feel supported by a man?
Why why why?!
Because if we think about it, women in the past have fought for EQUAL rights. Correct?
So when it comes to this, I've always experienced a sort of inequality to it.
Me personally, I always come in expecting to pay. I always have enough money on me, but I never have the thought that the woman is going to suggest help pay for our date (which I have no problem with by the way). I've only had one date that surprised me and said if she could handle the pay at a movie theater. Why I'm not sure, but after I asked "Are you sure?", she looked positively thrilled about it. I still bought the drinks, snacks, and other stuff inside so it pretty much evened out. And you know what, It felt damn good to feel appreciated for once.
So what's your input?
What do you think on this topic?
What do you do in this situation?(For both men and women)
Does it always end up men paying for you?
Do you feel it is a REQUIREMENT for the man to pay most of the times/always?
How do you feel about society being this way?
Discuss.
Here is what I'm trying to say. When a man and a woman go out together, the man is sometimes expected to pay am right? I only say sometimes because there are women out there who respect a man and try to equal things out. But when have you ever heard a women to be expected to pay for a man?
Why is it this way?
-Is it because society has made it seem this way? That the MAN should be able to support for a woman?(Because I know damn well that if a man ever talks about this, the man will most likely look like an asshole to women and some other men am I correct?)
-Is it because woman feel they need to feel supported by a man?
Why why why?!
Because if we think about it, women in the past have fought for EQUAL rights. Correct?
So when it comes to this, I've always experienced a sort of inequality to it.
Me personally, I always come in expecting to pay. I always have enough money on me, but I never have the thought that the woman is going to suggest help pay for our date (which I have no problem with by the way). I've only had one date that surprised me and said if she could handle the pay at a movie theater. Why I'm not sure, but after I asked "Are you sure?", she looked positively thrilled about it. I still bought the drinks, snacks, and other stuff inside so it pretty much evened out. And you know what, It felt damn good to feel appreciated for once.
So what's your input?
What do you think on this topic?
What do you do in this situation?(For both men and women)
Does it always end up men paying for you?
Do you feel it is a REQUIREMENT for the man to pay most of the times/always?
How do you feel about society being this way?
Discuss.