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They don't need to scout, they're part of a two tribe family, one is for people around our level up to 3k points or so, the other has people 10k plus.
Update:
It's the one guy who happens to run the weaker section of the tribe who seems to have the problem with us, I was talking to one guy who agreed to stop on the condition that he could sent scouts so the tribe thinks he is attacking.
I also just got this from another member:
BTW sorry have to keep attacking, orders are orders, but we might come to some arrangement,
Thankfully due tot he fact I'm living on only 2 hours of sleep a day right now I have been online to avoide every attack thrown at me, I sent him a message asking for peace since at this stage it's just as counter productive to him as it is me, if not more so.
Every time an attack is about to hit me I just send my troops out to raid and spend my resources on new ones.
I think the bisggish help sytem on Tribal Wars is really useful. Try clicking the link for it near the top of the page, look at troops or buildings. I just pick something useful and work towards it.
Oh, you lose troops randomly too? That's been happening to me more and more of late. The other day I lost 3 spears randomly. It doesn't really matter, but my army sure does like to kill themselves.
I didn't get all of it, since that was what was left of my army after I sent the rest out on other raids. It was too late to recall them to join that one, but the haul is amazing for this point anyways.